Showing posts with label Money. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Money. Show all posts

Friday, March 15, 2013

The financial consequences of organ transplant

I often talk about the financial strain of having a child with medical issues.  I have gotten questions about why finances are an issue and I would like to shed some light on the situation, as we are certainly not the only family impacted by organ transplantation.

Consider some numbers for a moment.  In 2011, the estimated cost for liver transplant was over $500,000(source).  Even with good health insurance, it is naive to think that all of those costs are covered.  Additionally, medical costs are insanely expensive.  For example, the typical lab draw for Luca means our insurance is billed $1700 - EACH TIME.  She gets those typical labs at least once a month, and earlier this year was getting labs once per week.  That is just for blood to be taken and tested.  Think about the amount of hospitalizations these children endure.  The last overnight stay with Luca the hospital did not intervene with any IV, fluids, or treatment other than to follow her normal feeding schedule at home and provide her medications.  They were essentially monitoring her.  That one overnight stay was billed for over $8000.  One night.

That is just to give you some perspective as to the amounts for transplant patients.  Now, consider this:

1.     Loss of work.  When receiving a life-threatening diagnosis for a child, a large percentage of parents make a decision for one parent to stay home.  But, this is not really a decision but more so it happens because it is absolutely necessary at the time.  There are so many doctor appointments, tests, lab draws, phone calls, insurance calls, etc., and often there are hospital admissions.  Being a parent requires that you are there for your child and getting that child better is the first priority, and it is a full-time job.  Even if both parents continue to work, likely one parent needs to take time off and may have to cut back on hours.  This is especially true when it comes time for the actual transplant and year following transplant.  There are tons of admissions and lengthy hospital stays and sometimes parents have to take unpaid leave from jobs.  In an age when so many families are two-income households, and survive because of that, cutting back to one income or a loss of income can be devastating for that family.  For Ian and I, it was a no-brainer that I should take a leave of absence from school.  Ian has a stable job (thank God) and has great insurance.  While that decision was the best one at the time, it means that my student loans have just been sitting there and I have had to fight to put them on hold.  Soon, that hold will run out and we will have to start paying my loans back because while there are a lot of exceptions when you yourself face medical crisis, there are no exceptions when you are the parent of a minor child facing medical crisis.

Then, think about when both parents are able to go back to work.  The child, unless in school, needs to go somewhere for childcare.  But now that the child is immunosuppressed and requires medications to be given during childcare hours, the options for quality care are few, and typically expensive.  Just another issue to consider.

2.     Travel and relocation.  Also consider that at least in transplant cases, many families travel to a transplant center that has experience in treating disorders and diseases that their child has been diagnosed with.  Often, these institutions are in larger cities and hence are more expensive to travel to and through.  Gas is expensive, and sometimes people need to even fly or take the train to their transplant center.  Also, parking at these hospitals can add up very quickly, especially when your child is inpatient (although some hospitals cover parking costs once you have been inpatient for a certain number of days).  In our case, our transplant center is in our nation's capital.  I love Washington, D.C.  Our transplant center is fantastic.  But getting fantastic quality care in the DC area also comes with a price - a hefty price.

Some families end up relocating to be closer to their transplant center.  We were living over an hour away from D.C. and that first year post-transplant required trips and admissions at least once per week.  It was too much stress so we decided to relocate to Montgomery County, which is right outside of D.C.  Living close by to our center is expensive.  Living in this area without the added costs of having a child with medical needs is hard.  Then factor in the medical expenses and making ends-meet proves difficult for many families.

3.     Medical Expenses.  Even with great health insurance, there are medical expenses.  There are bills associated with deductibles, co-insurance, prescription coverage, medical equipment and home delivery.  Personally, we take out a portion of every paycheck to pay for our deductible and co-insurance.  And with the recent federal enactment that places a $2500 limit on money that can be put into an FSA account, 2013 will mean more money out of pocket for families in our position.

Further, not all medications and supplements are covered by insurance.  In our case, immediately following transplant, Luca needed a special supplement to help her absorb the fat in her diet.  We only needed a small portion, but the smallest bottle cost us $90.  We used it for about 2-3 weeks and have about 3/4 of it left in the bottle (and I refuse to throw it because it cost so much, even though we have no use for it now.  These children often need special supplements or formulas and very rarely are they covered by insurance.  In terms of medications, one of Luca's medications is not covered by insurance whatsoever.  We have appealed the decision on more than one occasion and her doctor has written letters arguing for it to be covered.  But when one's disorder or medication is so rare that few people in the U.S. or within that medical plan require that medication, the insurance company is not required to cover it.  And so far, we have been unsuccessful in having it covered at all.  This is not uncommon among families facing a rare disorder or treatment for a loved one.

As if families were not under enough stress, families often have to argue with insurance companies and medical providers about costs.  Hospitals make mistakes and insurance companies do as well.  Things can get billed more than once but under a different medical code.  Things can be deemed out of network and thus you pay more.  I make calls to our insurance company or place of service (hospital or doctor's office) at least once per week regarding bills and questioning certain items.  Inevitably, I have to be the middle man between our insurance and medical provider in order to get something sorted out.  I have to call every three months to get an override for Luca's immunosuppression so that it can be covered.  But often the override takes 3-5 business days and we need the medications more quickly than that as her medications have a very short shelf-life because they are compounded into a liquid form.  So while we wait for approval, we pay out of pocket for her meds and then have to go through a lot of phone calls and paperwork to be reimbursed.

4.  Other things to consider.  With medical costs and your child's health at risk, these bills often take priority.  These leaves families in a state of panic sometimes for simple things like gas, car payments, grocery bills, mortgage or rent, personal items, etc.  Families still have to live their lives!  And unfortunately, the bills are not often spaced out nicely.  For example, we get hit massively from January to March of every year as the medical bills come in that meet our deductible.  So we pay a ton during those months and then have to kind of recover after that.  You cannot plan when your child needs an admission or transplant so often bills come in all at once.  Further, think about the age group of parents who are facing organ transplantation for their child.  Typically, the parents are on the younger side so they do not necessarily have huge amounts in savings for these types of emergencies.  They might have older cars or have just bought their first house.  They might just be getting more settled in their careers.  It is an age of change and excitement and then boom, you have a child that is medically unstable and as scary as that is (and it is really freaking scary), you also have to worry about all of the finances associated with this new life.



I hope this information provides some insight as to what transplant families go through.  Unfortunately when you have a child who requires organ transplantation, the financial consequences are life long.  Medications, doctor visits, complications, etc. are all issues that will continue to be part of a transplant family's life.  While this information is clearly not the rule for every family, I can hardly imagine that families have not had to deal with any of these burdens.  And finally, I just want to say that all of the financial concerns we have, it is all worth it.

Luca is here.  We have a roof over our heads, food in our bellies, great healthcare, and a happy girl on our hands.  Life is hard sometimes, but so worth it.




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Saturday, April 16, 2011

Money, Control, Perspective

We have recently been brainstorming a lot about where to go from here.  The "here" is that we rent a two-bedroom house in Baltimore but that living in Baltimore is no longer working for us.  I am not in school and have no idea when I will be able to go back to finish.  We are spending about 10 days per month at our house because we are at the hospital in DC so much with Luca.

Then, we got some unexpected news and realized that moving, while before was just a far-off idea, is something that needs to happen sooner rather than later.

We find ourselves at a loss.  We would ideally like to move back to the DC area.  But rental costs are higher there than here.  And that brings us to the huge realization:  we are stuck.  We are 28 and 30 years old, and financially we are stuck.

You see, we knew with me going to law school that we would make sacrifices.  So we did. We do not live in some lavish area or in a lavish place.  We have not gone on vacation since our honeymoon.  We have chosen not to go to some out-of-town weddings because we simply could not afford it.  We have skipped giving each other presents for holidays and cut back on presents for family members who understood our situation.

Then, we had Luca.  And the costs not covered by insurance are considerable.  Now I understand why so many families with special needs children end up having trouble financially.  With the traveling expenses, the food expenses while she is hospitalized, the deductibles, the prescriptions, the costs that exceed our insurance coverage - it all adds up to a double digit number. 

When Luca was hospitalized in August, in the very early beginning of this chaos, we cut out a lot of expenses.  We cancelled our gym membership.  We cancelled some services in our home.  We consolidated some insurances for a lower price.  We haggled to get better rates on some services.  I have not gotten a haircut since before she was born.  Ian switched hair places to a cheaper place.  We stopped going out to eat.  We eliminated gifts for birthdays and holidays for each other (and even for other people, sadly).

This is not something anyone ever prepares for.  You do not prepare for some major medical crisis.

It is a hard pill to swallow: we have not made bad financial decisions and yet are having trouble getting by.  And how do we dig out of this mess?  I wish I could go work to make money.  But unfortunately, she is not stable enough for us to leave her at home with anyone.  Sure we have family that can watch her occasionally.  But with her being in and out of the hospital so frequently, and her appointments happening so often, we really need one person home. 

We are searching everywhere for a new place that works for us.  We do not care if the place is not updated as long as it is clean, and in a very safe neighborhood.  Here's to hoping we can find something that works for us.

I am not saying all of this to get pity.  I am simply putting it out there so that people understand what having a medical crisis can do to a family financially.  Not all people struggling to get by have made bad choices.  Not all people struggling have overspent.  Sometimes, it is very much out of our control.

It is scary really.  This thing called control.  You think you have it, but really, it is just an illusion.

At the end of the day...this situation continues to give me perspective.  We have a roof over our heads, food in our bellies, and we are all alive and happy, togetherThat really is all that matters.

Friday, November 5, 2010

Numbers

2 days into life, L got sick.

She was transferred to 2 hospitals.

She stayed in the NICU at Children's for 31 nights.

She is now 13 weeks old today.

In those 13 weeks, her medical bills that have come in so far total: $773,581.16.

Thank God we have health insurance.

Friday, June 4, 2010

Babies cost a lot of money...and she isn't even here yet!

I seriously have been lacking a lot of motivation recently.  I think this is what they call the 3rd trimester exhaustion.  I really WANT to get things done, but when it comes time to finding the energy to do so, I'm so not interested. Then another day goes by, and I feel guilty that I did not get much accomplished.  I hate feeling guilty. 

I woke up yesterday feeling much the same.  But something happened during the day, and suddenly, I had this burst of motivation.  It was glorious!  Just to prove how much motivation I had, this is what I was able to accomplish:
  • ordered/sent 3 wedding gifts (2 were super belated)
  • ordered/sent 2 bridal shower gifts
  • ordered my maternity hospital gown (more on this in my next post)
  • filled out a packet of information for our doula and sent it to her
  • filled out a packet of information for the hospital and sent it
  • bought myself new slippers (more on this in my next post)
  • ordered Ian's anniversary present
  • picked up my prescription
  • talked to and set up an appointment with our tentative pediatrician (more on this later)
  • read a lot in my breastfeeding book
As you can see, yesterday also involved dishing out a ton of money.  I absolutely love being included in showers and weddings and other life celebrations - but it seems like all we're doing these days is spending money.  Money for the baby stuff, money to the hospital, to the doctors, money for presents for people.  A whole lot of money.  Money is stressing me out at the moment! 

But the good thing is, the majority of our big purchases for the baby (furniture, stroller, car seats) were either taken care of by family, or we have already taken care of.  And honestly, I guess we just have to get used to the fact that babies and kids cost a lot of money!  It's amazing how much we've spent on baby girl, and she isn't even here yet.  And we're even trying to do things to cut back on spending for her (cloth diapers, no daycare for the first 6 months, not splurging a ton except for her furniture really, and looking into buying lightly used clothing from friends of friends).

Just to give those out there who are about to embark on starting a family a clue as to what type of money to expect, here's a little breakdown for you.

My recommendation to people looking to start families is to put some money away for all of these things.  Our hospital bill alone will cost us about $1200 (that's the bare minimum, assuming we have no medications or complications).  The insurance plan we're on (even though it's the best one offered through Ian's company) pays 80% and we're responsible for 20%.  That's a lot of money!  Obviously, if your insurance plan is better than this, you won't have to dish out this much.  But honestly, we didn't really know how much it would cost us until we were already pregnant and talked to the hospital.

Then, add in the 20% of all these doctor visits, ultrasounds, bloodwork, random hospital visits (thanks kidney stone), and we're looking at about another $1000. 

We also have opted to use a doula (which you read about here and here).  This adds more costs.  We looked into a doula service that is free.  While the idea was super appealing to us (and the doulas are through a huge medical hospital in Baltimore), some things about the service weren't for us (mainly that we couldn't pick which doula we'd use, and if all of the doulas were already called for births before us, then we could end up without anyone).  So we opted to interview a few doulas and ultimately pick one.  The total cost (which some should be covered by our insurance) is $700.

There are also baby classes.  I'm sure you could opt for cheaper classes - but you need to find a birthing class that works for you.  As you know, we're currently taking hypnobirthing classes.  Total cost: $325 (also, some of this may be covered by insurance - get a receipt and submit it to find out!).  We're also taking a baby care class (for cpr as well as basic baby care like bathing, changing diapers, etc.), and a breastfeeding class.  These two classes cost $65 (what a steal in comparison to everything else!).

So those costs alone total:  $3290.  And guys, that's only the medical costs and preparation costs associated with the birth of our baby.  That's without the furniture, breast pump, stroller, car seats, day care, diapers, swings, clothes, books, maternity clothes, etc.

I put all this information out there because, for us, we did not realize how much starting a family would cost us.  Since this pregnancy was an unexpected (exciting!) surprise, we had not financially prepared for it as much as we would have liked.  So start saving now if you are thinking about having kids.  You'll be happy when all of these expenses come up, to already have the money sitting in an account.  It won't hit your monthly income if you've planned.

So there you have it - my motivation is back.  And babies cost a whole lot of money.